Sunday, January 23, 2011

Just do it. Or not.

I bought a ring the other day. Which my family thought was odd because well...I don't really wear rings, or any accessory for that matter. They think I am just being weird, wearing a ring. But to me, this ring has a whole different meaning. It is my purity ring. On the inside it says "Lugar para Principe Azul." Which in Spanish means Waiting for Prince Charming. People tell me I'm weird for waiting till marriage. Why not? Sex is over rated. Sex is complicated. Sex messes things up. I know to many people who have messed up something in their life because of sex. Those three letters can mess you up. Pregnancy. STD's. Why do something with someone that can mess you up? And not to be cliche, but i want my first time to be special. I want to leave my wedding reception and go back to our hotel sweet. When i get there i want the whole place to be covered in rose petals. I want there to be champagne and chocolate. I want to be able to cuddle there and remember that night for the rest of my life. The night where i lose my virginity. The night i have sex with that one person, ill be with for the rest of my life.

2 comments:

Margie. said...

Yes!
I totally know what you mean, I'm all for abstinence too. All my friends think it's totally dumb and don't think I can do it. But I just really want it to be SPECIAL when it happens, I want to be able to know that the person I did it with will be there for forever and to not have any regret once so ever about it.
It's really cool to know there are dudes out there who believe in abstinence too.

RedElephant said...

Totally! I mean like, why do something you will probabaly regret?